{"id":3204,"date":"2021-01-11T14:24:43","date_gmt":"2021-01-11T03:54:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.flinders.edu.au\/student-health-and-well-being\/?p=3204"},"modified":"2021-01-11T14:24:43","modified_gmt":"2021-01-11T03:54:43","slug":"awareness-connection-insight-and-purpose-critical-components-of-wellbeing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.flinders.edu.au\/student-health-and-well-being\/2021\/01\/11\/awareness-connection-insight-and-purpose-critical-components-of-wellbeing\/","title":{"rendered":"Awareness, connection, insight and purpose: critical components of wellbeing?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Welcome to 2021 everyone!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This year on the Student Health and Wellbeing Blog, I really want to focus on digging into the published research on health, wellbeing and productivity and sharing with you practical ideas for enhancing your own wellbeing and productivity.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I know that you don\u2019t have the time to be reading and absorbing that literature yourself, but you stand to gain from many of the insights from it. That is where I come in. If I can look through the literature for you, and extract from it things I reckon are helpful, that saves you time and effort, but gives me a task I actually really enjoy. You see, I spend my life teaching and writing about wellbeing, so the more I can learn about it, the better I can do my job. Sounds like a win-win!\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Kicking off this year is an article I found late last year (2020 &#8211; we shall never speak of it again) discussing 4 trainable dimensions of wellbeing. The paper titled \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pnas.org\/content\/pnas\/117\/51\/32197.full.pdf\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The plasticity of well-being: A training-based framework for the cultivation of human flourishing<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201d by Dahl, Wilson-Mendenhall and Davidson is a great paper for teachers (and students) of wellbeing research. Why? Because it attempts to organise an incredibly large body of wellbeing research in a way that makes it easier for someone who is interested in improving their wellbeing to work out what they should be doing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When we talk about \u2018wellbeing\u2019, we are talking (mostly) about the subjective sense that an individual has that their life is meaningful, that they are connected to others, that they experience positive emotion and they feel capable and competent. Wellbeing is associated with many desirable outcomes: good physical health, good mental health, rewarding work, strong social connections and life satisfaction. Thus building wellbeing is of interest to many.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The authors propose that someone looking to build wellbeing should focus on 4 dimensions: <em>awareness, connection, insight and purpose<\/em>, each dimension reflecting an important part of the process of building wellbeing and involving sets of skills that a person can develop with training.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This is a more nuanced and useful perspective than what we often see in the general wellbeing space. Let me explain.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Many articles you read about how to be happier or more productive focus on \u2018what\u2019 you should do: meditate, manage your time, challenge your thoughts, do yoga, eat well, etc. I\u2019m as guilty as the next person for writing such articles. In fact, my <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.flinders.edu.au\/student-health-and-well-being\/2020\/11\/09\/self-care-mega-guide\/\">self-care guide<\/a> is really just a massive list of &#8216;what&#8217; to do.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Such articles however don\u2019t always explain well \u2018why\u2019 you should engage in those activities. For example, what is it about meditation that is helpful? What does challenging your thoughts achieve?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Rather than putting wellbeing activities at the forefront, the authors of this article focus on what is it you should be trying to grow when picking wellbeing activities. This\u00a0 provides a really useful perspective on the core ingredients of wellbeing and what are the most important capacities an individual should develop to increase their wellbeing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The authors posit that individuals should be working towards developing 4 core capacities: awareness, connection, insight and purpose<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Awareness<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Awareness is the ability to direct and sustain one\u2019s attention towards a task or person or internal state (emotion, sensation, thought memory).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Focused attention\/awareness tends to be both subjectively a positive experience (compared with distractedness) but also helps us get things done. You know from experience the difference in how it feels to be focused on an assignment and making good progress, versus being unable to focus and persistently distracted. One makes you feel competent and gets the job done. The other leaves you feeling dejected and handing the assignment in late.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Given we spend up to 50% of our life in a state of distraction, there is room for improvement for most of us in our ability to pay attention and focus our awareness.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Good news is that we can train awareness in a number of ways. Mindfulness meditation teaches people to become aware of their conscious experience (the constant flow of thoughts, feelings and sensory experiences) and to sustain that awareness for increasing lengths of time. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Time management and organisation methods (e.g. using a pomodoro timer) train us to direct and sustain our attention on our work, whilst disengaging from distractors. It is why such methods are taught to students to help you develop your capacity for focused attention on difficult and challenging intellectual work.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">As a bonus, individuals who learn to focus their awareness and attention also tend to get better at regulating their emotional experience. For example, experienced meditators can learn to be less reactive to difficult or unpleasant thoughts, feelings, sensations and memories.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">As a second bonus, focused awareness and attention can also help you socially. Attending closely to the people you are interacting with and what they are saying will make you a better listener and better understand what others are experiencing and thinking.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Connection<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Connection is the subjective sense of caring for and being connected with others. Testament to the importance of connection, social relationships are one of the strongest predictors of health and help buffer us against stress and the inevitable setbacks of life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When we feel connected to others we are more likely to have better interactions with people (including those who differ from us in terms of their beliefs), develop supportive relationships, and do nice things for people (and in turn have them do nice things for us). We will experience a greater sense of gratitude and appreciation for the people in our lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Now there is no escaping that building high quality relationships involves practical stuff like opportunities to meet people, good listening skills and good social skills.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">But connection involves (at least partly) the mindset we bring to our interactions with other people. Namely, a desire and efforts to focus on shared characteristics, positive qualities and the helpful behaviours of others. This doesn\u2019t mean excusing other people\u2019s bad behaviour, but it does mean seeking out points of connection, rather than difference when interacting with others.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Training a sense of connection can be done separate from just interacting with other people. For example, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/ggia.berkeley.edu\/practice\/loving_kindness_meditation\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">kindness and compassion focused meditations<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> help amplify positive feelings and intentions towards others. When supporting those who are <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.flinders.edu.au\/student-health-and-well-being\/2020\/03\/13\/loneliness\/\">lonely<\/a>, part of the process involves getting them to attend to their internal experience and try to identify feelings of threat or avoidance and whether negative evaluations of others are hampering efforts to engage positively with people.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">As our attitudes towards others shifts, so does our behaviour. We are more likely to do nice things for people, to go out of our way to help others, which then often leads to reciprocal positive acts from others. Connections breeds further connection.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Insight<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Insight is the understanding we have about how our emotions, thoughts, beliefs and experiences have shaped and continue to shape our sense of the world and our sense of self.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It is about coming to understand one\u2019s quirks, personality, desires, triggers, likes\/dislikes and how these all interact into making us the person we are.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When we have a good understanding of the psychological processes that make us who we are, we can learn to respond differently when it is needed or identify pathways for personal change.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The thing is, none of us are perfect and we have all at least a few maladaptive ways of being in the world, of coping with the things that happen to us. As we gain insight into these we become more accepting of ourselves but also better informed on how to grow.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Psychotherapy\/counselling is a common place for individuals (or sometimes couples or groups) to engage in self-enquiry, guided by someone who can help us identify and challenge our maladaptive beliefs and behaviours. Having a guide can help us not fall into common self-enquiry traps like rumination, where we tend to go around in circles having the same thoughts.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Another common place for individuals to develop insight is meditation practice, particularly those types of meditation that invite the individual to contemplate the \u2018self\u2019 leading to people developing a different relationship to their thoughts, feelings and beliefs.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Purpose<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Having a sense of purpose is having a sense of clarity about one\u2019s goals, aims and values, but also the sense that you can (with effort) embody these in the way you live your life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For a student this might look like:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The goal of getting a degree<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The aim of using that degree to getting a good job and supporting one\u2019s family<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The desire to be a good student by allocating appropriate time to study and learning\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">A willingness to take advantage of work experience opportunities when they present<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Having a sense of purpose gives our life meaning and this is associated with improved physical and mental health. Having a sense of purpose also helps keep us focused when setbacks happen or we go through difficult times.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Purpose based around community, contribution and connection tends to lead to more reliable positive wellbeing impacts than purpose based around power or financial gain. This doesn\u2019t mean neglecting your own needs in the process, but a recognition that power or financial gain will likely only provide wellbeing benefits if they open up further opportunities to make a contribution to the community in which you live and\/or the people you love.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">So if you are feeling \u2018purposeless\u2019 what do you do?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Models of psychotherapy like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) have value and goal oriented exercises that help you clarify the life you want to lead. A good book to start your ACT journey is the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.actmindfully.com.au\/product\/the-happiness-trap-pocketbook\/\">Happiness Trap<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Exercises like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/ggia.berkeley.edu\/practice\/best_possible_self\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Best Possible Self <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">ask you to imagine the ideal future and can give you insights into what is important to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.flinders.edu.au\/student-health-and-well-being\/2017\/08\/30\/values-who-do-you-want-to-be-in-life\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Values focused exercises<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> help you think about the person you want to be and identify the characteristics you most want to project to the world.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For those worried that their \u2018purpose\u2019 hasn\u2019t presented itself yet, don\u2019t worry. Purpose grows as you experience more of the world. My sense of purpose was relatively immature when I was younger (in my 20\u2019s), but has got more refined over time. The important thing is to keep striving to make progress on the task in front of you. As you make progress, you learn more about yourself (insight), you improve your connections to others and you gain clarity about the meaning of your life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Takeaway idea(s)<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This article suggests engaging in activities that foster greater awareness, connection, insight and sense of purpose are your best-bet in terms of improving your overall wellbeing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This is a good filter to use when thinking about how to allocate the limited time you have each day. Pick those activities you think will have the greatest impact on these 4 dimensions.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Reflecting on these 4 dimensions might also encourage you to engage in activities you hadn\u2019t thought were relevant. For example, lots of people think that psychotherapy\/counselling is only something you do when things are going badly. But psychotherapy and counselling can be used proactively to build skills in areas such as the 4 described.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Finally, articles such as this one are important reminders that we can train these aspects of our lives. If you struggle in one of these areas, there is good reason to believe that you can make improvements.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Benefits of reading the full article<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I\u2019ve tried to provide a plain language description of some of the key ideas from the article, but there is value in reading it yourself if you have the time and interest.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Things that I think you\u2019d get from reading the full article:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">A better understanding of the range of positive outcomes of training in these 4 areas<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Access to a list of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pnas.org\/content\/pnas\/suppl\/2020\/12\/04\/2014859117.DCSupplemental\/pnas.2014859117.sapp.pdf\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">interventions <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">that the authors recommend for each of the 4 areas<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">An overview of some of the brain science behind these ideas. 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